Jun 9, 2005

People come into your life for a reason

~~~~~~~ People come into your life for a reason, a season or a
lifetime. When you know which one it is, you will know
what to do for that person. When someone is in your life
for a REASON, it is usually to meet a need you have
expressed.

They have come to assist you through a difficulty, to
provide you with guidance and support, to aid you
physically, emotionally or spiritually. They may seem
like a godsend and they are. They are there for the
reason you need them to be. Then, without any
wrongdoing on your part or at an inconvenient time, this
person will say or do something to bring the relationship
to an end.

Sometimes they die. Sometimes they walk away. Sometimes
they act up and force you to take a stand. What we must
realize is that our need has been met, our desire
fulfilled, their work is done. The prayer you sent up
has been answered and now it is time to move on.

Some people come into your life for a SEASON, because
your turn has come to share, grow or learn. They bring
you an experience of peace or make you laugh.

They may teach you something you have never done. They
usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy. Believe
it, it is real. But only for a season.

LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons, things
you must build upon in order to have a solid emotional
foundation. Your job is to accept the lesson, love the
person and put what you have learned to use in all other
relationships and areas of your life. It is said that
love is blind but friendship is clairvoyant.

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